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From last few days this thought kept me busy. Actually it all started from a song of Salaman Khan's new movie. I was stunned Is there really a lust which results in love? I realized physical needs can never end up in satisfaction, they are just momentarily. I love you because I love you not because of your body structure.
I came up with my conclusion: Love is always spiritual. Its beyond your physical needs. Yeah this is love. Yeah this The Love. I miss you..
I came up with my conclusion: Love is always spiritual. Its beyond your physical needs. Yeah this is love. Yeah this The Love. I miss you..
7 stones hit me....wanna throw more??:
How did you come to the conclusion that biological needs(physical needs in your terms) are not long lasting? Do you think biological needs can be described by just a 4 letter word?
you would have certainly come across a word "तृष्णा" means Craving that never gonna end. If its fire, you can touch it to test but if its a wiper then you know its harmful and you ain't gonna test it at all.
Biological needs are fragile. Once you are fed with one mate you certainly gonna need other one.
you are sounding contradictory :P ...at first you said that 'Trishna' never ends...and then you claim that this desire is momentarily. Kindly throw some light.
I'm clear in my views. The affects are momentarily while need is everlasting. Just read it again, hope you'll get it.
But since ancient times people have been saying that mating do increase the love (spiritual in your terms) between the partners. 1) Why is it that the physical need is enhancing the effect?
2) How can you suggest that your not liking your partner for her body structure is love? Expecting any kind of favour from the partner is not love albeit your needs are not physical but they are materialistic!
3)I want you to ask yourself a question, How would you behave if the girl you love leaves you for some other guy? Would you fight to get her back or step back just to see her happy?
If you believe that you love the girl (if any), try to think what you can do for her? Can you die for her without expecting anything in return? If you can't do any of that, then it's you who need to understand the meaning of LOVE in the first place.
James
I must mention that the intentions behind this post is a discussion between "Love" and "Mating(physical needs)".
Its not love when you see your lover just as a partner doing sexual intercourse. Love can have several consequences like mating. These two are just separate things like poles.
Liking a partner not by her body structure is implied from a fact that there is no end of beauty. You can see a lot of "more" beautiful girls by their look. What will you do?? Yeah exactly love does not ask for a favor.
Answering your question : Love does not turn out to be with the person you love. Love can ask you for sacrifices and still you won't blame any one because love is out of bounds of profit and loss.
My point for this post was the consequences of several events and the intentions after those events. I'm not saying mating won't turn out in enhancing love but its not a way if your intentions are not perfect.
As far as ancient time is concerned, people kept campaigning against pre-marital sex because they stated that marriage will be turning out in life long relationship. Love after the marriage had its ground on mating.
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