A Labyrinth called LIFE

Hey people!! here comes my first post..the content of the post was written some time back...with me was my sombre mood, a pile of my failed efforts, fear of disappointing some important people in my life...so it flowed out instantaneously and effortlessly out of my perplexed thoughts...

I wish life could turn out the way I wanted

at every step it could show me what I had already foreseen...

but then life questioned me..how I could be so mean

and not let my soul experience the adventure of the unseen...

I told life I get bored of you so fast..

everyday I want to celebrate a brand new success..

everyday I want to have a new blast.

life retorted back...I am worried how long will you actually last.

I told life I didn't accept the way it hit me on the face

when i thought the world was mine..

life said it wanted to teach me patience

and the fact that eventually everything falls in line.

I asked life why it created for someone inexplicable love in my heart

when the thought of parting felt like a piercing dart.

when the day he is not mine..I feel like the end of this world divine..

life said all answers I cant give you.

what you say might be absolutely true..

but let some mysteries remain..

or God's purpose of creating the world would be in vain....

Glass is half full

Doubts, Questions, Criticism they somehow become parts of initiation step of any process. Main point is how you tackle them & the answer is you just need to stay focused and optimistic for your aim. Come what may, don't ever let any distraction touch you.

Questions just arise from nowhere and yet they have a deep impact in heart to make it worried for no "Actual reason". Don't let these monsters hurt your sacred goal. Just check once for the credibility of the source and you'll see that you're going on the right way. Questions never stop popping, although they're as big or small as you make them in your head. Joys or sorrows don't come by as often, but it's still upto us how big or small they become, and how much we make them mean.

Doubts, just like hurt or pain, feel like those omnipresent entities who stay at the background all the time, and rush to the surface at the slightest opening or invitation. Don't let them enter in your vision, they are big distractions, sometimes cause delay yet sometime they just turn the whole plan into debris. 

Don't ever let any such thing happen to you. Just see around you, Life moves on. Sometimes bad things happen, very bad things, that is time for you to trust yourself, your capabilities since Good is always there somewhere also. Any day is full of experiences, just learn from them.

Now its upto you what you wanna pick, there are all types of possibilities in this world. You can either say "Glass is half empty" or you can emphasize on "Glass is half full". Before making up your mind and just think for atleast once, is it worth giving away all your energy to one doubt? Is it worth to give away all your enthusiasm to one damn irrelevant question?

Let your Glass always half full.

The very first thought!

Whenever you see an unclaimed property, what is the first thought in you mind [If you noticed that item and if the thing is nice :D]  "Who left this here?" and certainly you want to look around for the probable owner. Somehow there is a joy if nobody is likely to be the one :D. Now the next thing is the courage of touching it. You slowly move towards it and at the last moment two persons pop out of your head "Evil" and "Angel"
So what does Evil say [his words are precise and will not confuse you in any sense] "If that person does not care then why do you, come on! come on! take it"
And now the Angel one starts murmuring in its defense "You are not the real owner, this thing does not belong to you. Don't touch it!"
Evil insists and give a logic - "Now-a-days no one cares about anyone else, if you were the owner it would have gone by now, go on pick it up you fool. If you won't, then some one else would."
Angel now touches a nerve - "You would be sad if your precious thing had lost in such a way, so don't do such thing which you don't expect for yourself, so don't take it."

And it goes on, now you need to decide which side you want to be on and somehow it matters how early you choose your side.

So the very first thought matters a lot.

What I stated as Evil might not be the "Evil" in many cases and hence it makes the differences.
Somehow even if you don't pick that object yet the time taken in deciding matters. Many times your actions are not everything that represents you, self satisfaction matters.

Life is a little instruction book....

Today one of my friend, who generally have a serious, calm and mature look, tagged me in a Note @ Facebook. I started with a boring mood as now its common in Facebook to have a tag in some random post. But I was fortunate that I started reading this note. After reading first few lines, it grabbed me in itself and I was just mesmerized. Kept on reading and finally completed it with several overwhelming lessons about Life. I always say that life is too good. I finally found that we should never search for the cause of any beautiful happening in our life, just enjoy it. Some of the points are funny but they have their impact in our daily life. Do read this in one go and think seriously with a cute smile and you know what? your smile is prettiest.

At any point of time you can treat it as a questionnaire, you need to do nothing but give it a thoughtful shot.

* If.... in a fight, hit first and hit hard

* Keep it simple

* Always accept an outstretched hand

* Be a good winner

* Give people a second chance, but not a third

* Sing in the shower

* Beware of the person who has nothing to lose...

* When playing games with children, let them win

* Be romantic 

* Begin each day with some of your favorite music

* Count your blessings

* Lend only those books you never care to see again

* Whistle

* Think twice before burdening a friend with a secret

* Look people in the eye

* Send your loved ones flowers. Think of a reason later

* Be a good loser

* Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen everyday

* Keep secrets

* Live your life so that your epitaph could read, No Regrets

* Have a firm handshake

* Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them

* Avoid sarcastic remarks

* Answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice

* Become someone's DREAM

* Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know 

* Don't expect life to be fair

* Compliment the meal when you're a guest in someone's home

* Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all that they have

* Remember no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you.

* Be brave. Even if you're not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference....

* Don't allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It's there for YOUR convenience, not the caller'.

* Visit friends and relatives when they are in hospital; you need only stay a few minutes

* Remember that 80 per cent of the success in any job is based on your ability to deal with people

* Show respect for everyone who works for a living, regardless of how trivial their job

* Choose your life's mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90 per cent of all your happiness or misery

* Loosen up. Relax. Except for rare life-and-death matters, nothing is as important as it first seems

* Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you'll regret the things you didn't do more than the one's you did

* Keep a note pad and pencil on your bed-side table. Million-dollar ideas sometimes strike at 3 a.m.

* Take charge of your attitude. Don't let someone else choose it for you.

Who cares ??

Each and every exclamatory sentence following, is having the same answer "Who cares??"

Water tap is just opened !!

Plate full of food, going to dustbin !!

Spitting in the corners !!

Eve-teasing, although a sister is at home !!

Electricity just being wasted !!

Thieves at neighbors home !!

Road accident, few persons are injured !!

Election polling is going on in world's largest democracy !!

Vehicle is polluting too much !!

My thoughts might be limited and a lot to be explored for the same answer, but the list itself has sufficient to think about.

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Now Listening

Kahi to hogi wo (Jane tu ya jane na) | Pappu can't dance sala (Jane tu ya jane na)

कभी - कभी I

While surfing internet, I found a poem as status message of one of my friends. I found this poem to be very interesting, then searched for whole poem and found 4 types of poem with same type of rhyming. Just added all 4 of them, converted them into Hindi and will publish all of this in several parts. Readers are requested to add some lines on their own at the end of the poem with same rhyme.

कभी अपनी हँसी पर भी आता है गुस्सा,
कभी सारे जहाँ को हसाने को जी चाहता है |
कभी छुपा लेते हैं गमों को दिल के किसी कोने में,
कभी किसी को सब कुछ सुनाने को जी चाहता है |
कभी रोता नहीं दिल टूट जाने पर भी,
और कभी यूँ ही आँसू बहाने को जी चाहता है |
कभी हँसी सी आ जाती है भीगी यादों में,
तो कभी सब कुछ भुलाने को जी चाहता है |
कभी अच्छा सा लगता है आज़ाद उड़ना कहीं,
और कभी किसी की बाहों में सिमट जाने को जी चाहता है |

Spark

One of my friend sent a part of speech of Chetan Bhagat at Symbiosis via text message . Its just not a crap you hear every time in fair well functions by chief guests. Its truly inspirational and encouraging. Although this is a fraction of whole of speech but the most important ones.

Don’t just have career or academic goals. Set goals to give you a balanced, successful life. I use the word balanced before successful.

Balanced means ensuring your health, relationships, mental peace are all in good order.

There is no point of getting a promotion on the day of your breakup. There is no fun in driving a car if your back hurts. Shopping is not enjoyable if your mind is full of tensions.

Life is one of those races in nursery school, where you have to run with a marble in a spoon kept in your mouth. If the marble falls, there is no point coming first. Same with life, where health and

relationships are the marble. Your striving is only worth it if there is harmony in your life. Else, you may achieve the success, but this spark, this feeling of being excited and alive, will start to die.

One last thing about nurturing the spark – don’t take life seriously. Life is not to be taken seriously, as we are really temporary here. We are like a pre-paid card with limited validity. If we are lucky, we may last another 50 years.

And 50 years is just 2,500 weekends. Do we really need to get so worked up? It’s ok, bunk a few classes, goof up a few interviews, fall in love. We are people, not programmed devices.  

Your life is too good

Came across this pic on another blog.

I just had to share it with you guys.

and to whomever it may concern...

this is not "copying"

this is "SPREADING AWARENESS"

Sometimes..

Sometimes
     Sorry means:
       Its not my fault,its yours
       Accept it,it would make me feel better
  Good Night means:
       Don't keep the phone stupid,
       I want to talk more
  Take Care means:
       I'm not well and need to be cared by you.
  Disconnecting a phone means:
       Call me back,
       I want you to persuade me with something special

Sometimes smile means more than tears
&
Sometimes tears are more satisfying than smile

There are very few people who understand the exceptions.

AND those people are found only SOMETIMES

Into my life......

Sometimes I feel so troubled,
I don't know what to do.
There are many things that bother me,
There are many things I know.

Which are hard to reach,
Just too far to reach.

Or just so hard to understand,
But then I know there's someone
Who'd always stand by me.


There won't be nights that are cold,
There won't be days that are
Too far from the sun.


Though the rest of the world may walk away,
I'll never be alone,will never be alone.
The stars will shine above me just for me,
And the earth will keep me close
To you.

Each day is filled with a purpose,
Heaven's smiling down on me.
There isn't a thing that I can't do,
the reason is she.


Heaven's sweet embrace shall keep me here,
Wash away tears,
Calm down the fears.
Bring the sun back to my life,
Bring the sun into my life.
Again.


Feeling tired by the fire
The long day is over

The wind is gone asleep at dawn
The embers burn on

With no reprise
The sun will rise
The long day is over

The Long Day Is Over